So sorry it’s been so long since I’ve blogged (for those of you who are obsessed like me). As the holidays are approaching, and with Thanksgiving gone, we have been so busy in my household. I made the mistake of telling my boss at Elder Beerman that I could work a bit of hours and ended up working almost 35 last week. It was really intense, but I made some extra cash for Christmas which always helps. In other words, not much happened that anyone would care to hear about.
As many of you know, there are quite a few things that I have really passionate feelings or beliefs about. I hope that this blog will be an outlet for them. I have had so many wonderful ideas for blog topics such as an Ode to my Wonderful Husband, My thoughts on Politics, as well as Education. However, I just don’t seem to have enough time or energy to put into some of them. I promise that one day, perhaps over Christmas break, I will be fortunate to have enough time to write them all.
Today’s blog is about my insomnia or inability to fall asleep in any normal amount of time. It takes seven minutes for the average American to fall asleep, at least that’s what I’ve been told. Well it takes me an average of 77 minutes and includes some vicious tossing and turning and ups and downs and ins and outs and all kinds of bothersome stuff. I’ve decided to get back to journaling in hopes that it will help take some of the 85 million thoughts that go through my head when it hits the pillow. Most of the time they are so sporadic I can’t even follow them through. The rest of the time, I’m wallowing in self-pity or needlessly worrying about something that “could” happen. Now I’ve read Linda Dillow (Calm My Anxious Heart) and can identify a spell of anxiety when it hits me. Yet, even though I’ve clearly recognized it, there doesn’t seem to be anything I can do about it.
I mean, I spend time worrying about Jesse Carpenter (my beloved cousin’s boyfriend who also happened to make my wedding favors so he’s not just some guy to me) in Afghanistan and how bad she must be hurting. Sometimes, I let myself relive the pain of being so far away from Corey while in Morocco just to remember what she is going through. I could literally spend hours crying about it when I think of his danger and her heartache. Or I worry about my grandparents dying instantly and without warning. They are getting up there you know, and any day could be there last. I let myself become devastated in a matter of moments over something that hasn’t even happened or isn’t happening to me. Some would call it compassion; I think it’s something in my head that needs to get out. Worrying and being up half the night over these things that I cannot control will do no one any good.
Then there is my proposal, which I’m finally giving on Friday, yes this FRIDAY! NOVEMBER 30TH, and that just has me really freaked out. The fact that Corey asks me 5 times a day if I’m nervous is beside the point. The biggest fear of all keeps creeping up inside of me: FAILURE. What if I suck? What if they ask questions I can’t answer? And worst of all, what if I look stupid? Maybe that’s it. I’ve fought all these years to prove to myself, my peers, even my family that I am a smart cookie. That I can achieve my goals, even if they aren’t as black and white as others. That I can be successful doing what I love to do, even if it means not making six figures. That I can do geography, because it doesn’t require me to put myself in a box, behind a desk, or in one place. All of this, in my head, is riding on a 20 minute presentation that I have to give in a room full of people I know know well! and respect) in less than 4 days.
It is amazing to me how I can bottle most of my self-worth into one thing (for many women it becomes a body image issue for me it’s a brain issue): my intelligence.
Will my anxiety end on Friday when the presentation is over? What will it manifest in next? And most importantly what will “they” think of me? Who is “they” even? Who am I most worried about impressing? My advisor? My committee? My husband? My sister? My peers? My colleagues? Myself? My God? My Jesus?
Somewhere between my faith and my plans...
Monday, November 26, 2007
Friday, November 9, 2007
The Outline
The Philosophy
The namesake of this blog provides you all with a description of where I am in life. I generally refer to live in seasons which of course I take from Ecclesiastes. For several years now, this passage has been dear to my heart and close to my heart is where I shall keep it. To me it only makes sense that it should be, at the very least, in my first “real” blog. Let me interject that it is truly refreshing to be able to write without in text citation.
Ecclesiastes 3
A Time for Everything
1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:
2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain,
6 a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.
9 What does the worker gain from his toil?
10 I have seen the burden God has laid on men. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
Courtesy of Bible Gateway.com
(YET AGAIN WITH THE CITATIONS!)
But as of lately, I’ve been feeling—well, out of place. Currently, I feel as though I’m not in any of these seasons-perhaps a mixture of them or just between the lines. As Casting Crowns (I just can’t stop with the citations now can I) put it so eloquently…somewhere in the middle. “Somewhere between the new and the old, somewhere between who I am and who I used to be, somewhere in the middle you’ll find me. Somewhere between the wrong and the right, somewhere between the darkness and the light, somewhere between who I was and who Your making me, somewhere in the middle you’ll find me.”
The Middle
This is the part where I tell you what the current middle consists of. I am still working on my thesis proposal and in fact have a meeting with my advisor at 1pm today. I should have completed by proposal weeks ago and begun working on my data collection for my thesis by now, but that did not happen. It didn’t happen for a variety of reasons, mostly because when I started this whole process I didn’t know what I was doing. I arbitrarily chose something to research and didn’t even consider the philosophical or theoretical background. Not to mention, I also started this when I was planning the wedding and taking a full load of courses which pulled me in all directions. It’s not that I’m unthankful for those experiences because I learned a lot about things I need to know about. It’s just that I was never able to focus on any one thing. Then school was out, and I went into wedding mode for the next 2 months (yes I was still in wedding mode post ceremony). After coming back from the honeymoon, fully moving Corey in, and organizing all of the wonderful gifts we received it was time to get a part time job so that we weren’t totally broke all of the time. Shortly after, my sister moved in and school started. I hadn’t looked at my proposal in months. So, a few days before it started I completed all of the edits that Dr. McCusker had scribbled in red and insisting that I must have written it in my sleep. This was not a compliment however true.
Then we began the process of turning my proposal into something readable. We focused on one section at a time, one week at a time, and finally ended with a decent proposal, except. Well, except that I still did not have a theoretical foundation but at least I knew that I wanted to focus in political economy. Political economy focuses on how the organization of our economy is impacted by a variety of issues, none the least politics. For example, capitalism only works as well as it does because of the serious physical property and intellectual property rights. Well, this being said those of you who know me want to understand what in the world (pun intended) this has to do with geography. Well if this is your question just send me an email and I will be happy to explain it to you however, I probably shouldn’t re-write my theoretical approach on my blog (someone might steal it). And at this point, I decided to embark upon the Marxist journey of understanding how capitalism affects space and society—which began with a long conversation with the talented Dr.Hanham.
After reading and digesting and writing a theoretical approach, as well as some serious restructuring of my proposal I gave Dr.McCusker a copy on Monday night and we will be discussing it today. So I should propose by the end of the semester—let’s hope (and pray, seriously). That said it should be known that my timeline will take me through the summer to complete the thesis and therefore I will not actually graduate until December 08, but should be able to get a job in the Fall of 08. I am stuck in Morgantown until this thesis is finished!
So, basically, I am in the middle of a Master’s Degree.
This has become a really long post. I think I’ll end it here and save more rants for another day.
My birthday is tomorrow- I’ll be 24. Half way to 48.
somewhere in the middle
The namesake of this blog provides you all with a description of where I am in life. I generally refer to live in seasons which of course I take from Ecclesiastes. For several years now, this passage has been dear to my heart and close to my heart is where I shall keep it. To me it only makes sense that it should be, at the very least, in my first “real” blog. Let me interject that it is truly refreshing to be able to write without in text citation.
Ecclesiastes 3
A Time for Everything
1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:
2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain,
6 a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.
9 What does the worker gain from his toil?
10 I have seen the burden God has laid on men. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
Courtesy of Bible Gateway.com
(YET AGAIN WITH THE CITATIONS!)
But as of lately, I’ve been feeling—well, out of place. Currently, I feel as though I’m not in any of these seasons-perhaps a mixture of them or just between the lines. As Casting Crowns (I just can’t stop with the citations now can I) put it so eloquently…somewhere in the middle. “Somewhere between the new and the old, somewhere between who I am and who I used to be, somewhere in the middle you’ll find me. Somewhere between the wrong and the right, somewhere between the darkness and the light, somewhere between who I was and who Your making me, somewhere in the middle you’ll find me.”
The Middle
This is the part where I tell you what the current middle consists of. I am still working on my thesis proposal and in fact have a meeting with my advisor at 1pm today. I should have completed by proposal weeks ago and begun working on my data collection for my thesis by now, but that did not happen. It didn’t happen for a variety of reasons, mostly because when I started this whole process I didn’t know what I was doing. I arbitrarily chose something to research and didn’t even consider the philosophical or theoretical background. Not to mention, I also started this when I was planning the wedding and taking a full load of courses which pulled me in all directions. It’s not that I’m unthankful for those experiences because I learned a lot about things I need to know about. It’s just that I was never able to focus on any one thing. Then school was out, and I went into wedding mode for the next 2 months (yes I was still in wedding mode post ceremony). After coming back from the honeymoon, fully moving Corey in, and organizing all of the wonderful gifts we received it was time to get a part time job so that we weren’t totally broke all of the time. Shortly after, my sister moved in and school started. I hadn’t looked at my proposal in months. So, a few days before it started I completed all of the edits that Dr. McCusker had scribbled in red and insisting that I must have written it in my sleep. This was not a compliment however true.
Then we began the process of turning my proposal into something readable. We focused on one section at a time, one week at a time, and finally ended with a decent proposal, except. Well, except that I still did not have a theoretical foundation but at least I knew that I wanted to focus in political economy. Political economy focuses on how the organization of our economy is impacted by a variety of issues, none the least politics. For example, capitalism only works as well as it does because of the serious physical property and intellectual property rights. Well, this being said those of you who know me want to understand what in the world (pun intended) this has to do with geography. Well if this is your question just send me an email and I will be happy to explain it to you however, I probably shouldn’t re-write my theoretical approach on my blog (someone might steal it). And at this point, I decided to embark upon the Marxist journey of understanding how capitalism affects space and society—which began with a long conversation with the talented Dr.Hanham.
After reading and digesting and writing a theoretical approach, as well as some serious restructuring of my proposal I gave Dr.McCusker a copy on Monday night and we will be discussing it today. So I should propose by the end of the semester—let’s hope (and pray, seriously). That said it should be known that my timeline will take me through the summer to complete the thesis and therefore I will not actually graduate until December 08, but should be able to get a job in the Fall of 08. I am stuck in Morgantown until this thesis is finished!
So, basically, I am in the middle of a Master’s Degree.
This has become a really long post. I think I’ll end it here and save more rants for another day.
My birthday is tomorrow- I’ll be 24. Half way to 48.
somewhere in the middle
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Everyone else has one...
Seeing as everyone I know has a blog on blogger, and I check them daily now because I'm either obsessed or procrastinating, I have decided to start blogging. Also, I have found it is a great way to keep up with friends i don't regularly get to chat with. You can look forward to discussions about many things on this blog from the Marxist perspective on capitalism to the recent terrorist activities of the cats (or shhmats as we call them), and always including the recent Colbertisms.
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